Dr Emily Nagoski’s groundbreaking bestseller challenges everything we thought we knew about women’s desire and intimacy. Backed by years of research and real-world experience, Come As You Are explores the inner workings of female sexuality—revealing that every woman is different, yet perfectly normal.
With humour, compassion, and clarity, Nagoski explains how stress, self-criticism, and cultural myths affect arousal and pleasure—and most importantly, how we can rewrite those narratives. This is not a manual filled with tricks or tips, but a roadmap to self-acceptance, confidence, and deeper connection.
A must-read for anyone seeking a better understanding of their body, their brain, and the role of pleasure in a full and vibrant life.
Why We Love It:
- Validates every woman’s unique experience of desire
- Combines science with storytelling in an accessible, empowering way
- Perfect for those navigating stress, performance pressure, or sexual self-doubt
- Written by a renowned sex educator and wellness expert
Prefer shopping in person? This product is also available in our Adult Store in Pretoria .
Frequently Asked Questions
When will I get my order?
When will I get my order?
You will have your order within 1 - 2 working days.
How discreet is the shipping & billing?
How discreet is the shipping & billing?
All our packages are plain and sealed and can be delivered anywhere without anyone knowing what's in the box.
The words Lizzy Bliss don't appear on any Packaging, Waybills, Bank or Card Statements. It's like it never happened. The billing on your bank statement will read Dgenerec Pty Ltd.
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Do you have a physical shop I can visit?
Do you have a physical shop I can visit?
Yes! You are welcome to visit our discreet and beautiful Boutique store in Waterkloof Heights, Pretoria. We’re open 7 days a week. Get Directions and Learn More Here.